There are so many times in life that you second-guess the decisions you make as a parent. You always try to do what is best for your children and sometimes it works & sometimes it doesn't. I am so relieved that the decisions Frank & i have made in the last year have turned out to be spot on!!
When we moved here 4 years ago, I was sucked into a social group of "so-called friends" that wasn't the best thing for our family. These people were shallow, obsessed with climbing the social ladder, and not very family focused. It was all about getting sitters to go out all of the time.
Frank & I went along because we thought "what a welcoming group of people."
After we had a reality check a year later, and realized we didn't have the same values (or lack of) as these people, Frank & I started making decisions the way we used to WHAT WORKS FOR OUR FAMILY!!!
We pulled Allie out of the "clique" at dance and put her in a class where she knew no one. She quickly met new friends and these girls have been amazing!
We recently switched Peter's soccer league to what we felt was best for him. He had played soccer with the other boys since 1st grade but the league was horrible. He finally agreed to switch and couldn't be happier.
Last year we decided to switch the kids to public school only to find there was a waiting list. Yes a waiting list at a public school. Peter was able to get in last March but we just found out Allie got in. The kids are thrilled - and so are we.
Frank & I feel like now life is GREAT!!! We have finally gotten our kids out of things that other people told us we should be a part of and did what is best for them and our family as a whol. It has been a crazy couple of years. Through all of that, Frank & I have met some AWESOME people who we call our friends. Thanks you Jenny, Lance, Caroline, Chad, Traci, Jeff, Karen, Mark, etc.....for showing us what real friendship means.