I was at a CEW weekend retreat (Christian Experience Weekend) this weekend and feel completely rejuvenated spiritually. Frank & I have been involved with the CEW community since moving here and this was honestly, the best one I have been on. Frank's parents came in on Thursday so I could get a chance to spend some time with them before I had to leave Friday. The kids had an absolute BLAST with Grandma & Papa. Frank was down at church a lot doing behind-the-scenes stuff - By having his folks in town it allowed him the freedom to come & go without worrying about a sitter.
It has always been so hard not living close to family. When we were in Michigan, we had Frank's parents 30 minutes away but mine were 4 hours. Now they are both about 8 hours away. We cherish all the time we can get with family.
I know how BLESSED I am that I have always stayed home with my kids. I know not everyone can afford to do this. Believe me, with Frank's current job and "buying his territory" - it hasn't been easy financially. I see the joy on my kids faces getting them off to school in the morning and being home every day when they get off the bus. They especially love it on Tuesdays & Thursdays when I pick them up from school (I would do it everyday but gas is so darn expensive). I have the luxury of volunteering several days a week in the school where I still get hugs & kisses from them (even in front of their friends).
Seeing the kids reactions when Grandma & Papa had to leave was heart-wrenching. Peter began sobbing the night before saying, "can't they stay?" Then he asked "can we go with them?" Grandma was crying, I was crying, Peter was crying...it was a cry-baby fest!!!
I talked to Peter that day and explained how proud I am that he has the same value on family that I have always had. We have always cherished family vacations and time with family. Family is so important - whether it is extended family or immediate family, it is treasured. So this weekend allowed a lot of time for me to pray and count the blessings I have. My true blessings are my family. No amount of money or status could or would ever take the place of time with them.
So love to all my family reading this. See you all soon - God Bless.
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